Miss Manners: People lick their fingers while eating instead of using napkins

Is it time to address the unsanitary habits happening at the dinner table? A reader recently reached out to Miss Manners, expressing frustration with individuals who lick their fingers while eating in public settings. The reader noted that these same people often touch shared items without washing their hands, sparking concerns about the spread of germs. Miss Manners offered a pointed response: if you are worried about those germs, you will likely be the one who ends up with them.

Navigating Professional Dining Etiquette

Beyond general cleanliness, etiquette remains a hot topic, particularly in professional environments where social interaction is common. One reader shared a struggle regarding younger team members whose table manners are causing some discomfort during group meals. Despite these women being bright and college-educated, their lack of dining decorum—such as placing soiled cutlery on the table or cutting meals into tiny pieces—seems to be hindering their personal lives and social success.

The reader questioned whether it was their responsibility to intervene. Miss Manners noted that while the lines between personal and professional spheres have become blurred, there is value in mentorship. A professional mentor might be the best person to help these younger associates refine their behavior, as mastering etiquette is often a necessary component of long-term career growth.

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