Asking Eric: Young adult hates new city home
A homesick woman questions whether she should stay in a city she dislikes or give herself permission to move back where she feels more at home.
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Dear Eric: A 32-year-old reader is struggling after moving to a new city following a job change and a breakup. Despite living in a popular metropolis for a few years, they have found it difficult to build a social circle or adapt to the local rhythm. Spending most of their time and money traveling back home has left them wondering if they must force themselves to stay or if it is acceptable to move on.
The Verdict: Give Yourself Permission to Move
Dear Homesick: It is time to start packing. While you might feel like you are failing by leaving, you are simply processing the answer to a question you posed to yourself years ago. Past You made a decision based on what was needed at the time, but Current You has different requirements. There is no reason to beat yourself up for evolving; instead, celebrate the fact that you now have a much clearer understanding of what you actually need to be happy.
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